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[quote=Anonymous]Just talk less and change your actions more. Don’t think that you can explain things to her and that she will change her behavior. All the talking in the world is not going to suddenly make her see the light and realize what she is doing and change accordingly. I agree with those who to say to be short and brief, “everything’s OK can’t talk right now!” When you do talk to her, if you find that she is asking for details about your illness, just say “oh let’s talk about something more pleasant” and bring up some other subject and if she persists and talking about your illness, just say “oh I’m sorry everything’s OK but I gotta go right now the dishwasher is overflowing” or whatever. Ask her questions about what’s going on in her life. Distract her from your illnesses. What she really wants is contact with you and reassurance that you are OK.[/quote]
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