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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - I’m really not trying to be a jerk. I am being judgmental, that’s true. and I didn’t give any information about me. I just honestly have had a hard time figuring out how to deal with her oddities when they impact me - during visits, [b]money asking[/b], judging me, kids.  Not in the abstract. I was just thinking I may have more empathy if I understand her better. [/quote]

OP you mentioned NOTHING about her asking you for money in your post.  In fact, it only came up in response to a different poster mentioning the POTENTIAL that she may eventually ask for money.

Has she or has she not asked your family for money?[/quote]

I have said multiple times that she has. My original post while probably more judgy than appropriate was coming fresh off a way too long visit. So I’m feeling it rn. And honestly I am interested in what kind of “mental illness” this is. I realize the way I asked has not generated much helpful input. [/quote]

Please show me where you said multiple times that she has asked you for money?

And if she has (notwithstanding her apparently codependent husband) what happened?  How did she ask? What did she ask for? Did you give it?

Why was this not the subject of your concern/OP? Rather it was that she is chubby, cares about health, and spends money on beauty…

And why do you think she has a mental illness?[/quote]

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