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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP can any of his buddies from this activity share the load in taking him to appts? That would be how I would try to reduce my workload. Is he the kind of person who would fully step up for you if this were flipped? If so, this is a blip in the overall scheme of things but yes, still sucks. [/quote]

Would love to know the answer to this but honestly- [b]just telling us what the sport is would help[/b]. You haven't stated anything here that is identifying or could come back on you negatively. There is a lot of range between base jumping and curling.[/quote]

NP. Why would it "help" other than to satisfy your curiosity? OP is right not to identify the sport because once she does, the thread will derail into a debate about whether people here think that sport is or isn't dangerous, OP will be told she's "overreacting" and "controlling," OP will get utterly useless anecdotes about how someone's spouse or friend does this sport and has never so much as bruised a toe, blah blah.

None of that helps OP in any way. If you have some ideas about how she can improve the logistics of dealing with DH/kids/work/chores/appointments, [b]do weigh in.[/b] The nature of the sport has no impact on those logistics. I get it -- you're riffing off a question asking if the DH's buddies [i]from the activity or sport[/i] would pitch in. But how does the specific sport many any difference in answering whether any friends who do the sport with him would or would not help? Answer: It doesn't make a difference. You just want to know because you want to know. Like others here saying they "need" to know.

OP, don't name it. You'll just fuel a thread of "But it's not that bad" or "It's horrible and here's why" posts about the sport -- not posts about your situation right now. 
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Ok, weirdo, you are way too invested in this and somehow think OP has a complete inability to filter out the non-relevant/useless posts that she could receive related to opinions on said hobby. I'm not that curious/was just trying to help by obtaining relevant info. It's apparently not relevant to you- and apparently you have weighed in here somewhere here with your specifics/ feedback to improve the logistics of dealing with DH/kids/work/chores/appointments (though I haven't seen a reply like that so you are pretty unhelpful).

Re: the bolded, It was two different pieces of feedback and for the first, I did weigh in- 1) who else in the sport in his friend group can help and how? 2) what is the sport? You are right. It could degrade into wrong/right or right-fighting like your post, BUT if it was speedwalking or hiking, the consensus would probably tell her to unclench, whereas if it was petting sharks or parkour on highrises, the feedback would probably help OP in feeling comfortable enough with the general group consensus to have a come to jesus with DH to prevent future recurrences.

Gotta get back to my heli-skiing now. It's bad for the environment but at least I'm not scared to state my hobby.[/quote]

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