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[quote=Anonymous]OP, a lot of your reaction is probably coming from your own fear. Dreading for years to receive that call and then receiving that call. Being resentful and afraid of the sport but also loving him and not wanting to take away something he loves. All of that simmers on the back burner, and that sucks plenty. Then the call comes. You probably feel guilty for being upset that you received THIS call, because there are others that would be "worse" whatever that means.

This is a scary thing that just happened. Expect everyone to feel scared and angry and overwhelmed. Those are appropriate human responses to crisis. But remember that you love him and you don't want him to suffer. He loves you and doesn't want you to suffer either. Figuring out how to make that happen is what comes now.

At the very least, he won't be back on the mountain/on the bike/in the plane any time soon, it sounds like, so focus on immediate self-care rather than long term behavior change requirements.[/quote]

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