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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry for the loss of your mother. I would take a break from her. And tell her the last straw was her behavior to your daughter. You don’t need to make the decision today that the break is permanent. I would do my best to not go nuclear in the discussion - but rather be direct and indifferent. Also, while your sister’s normal behavior seems to be rooted in jealousy, I would cut her a tiny break here as she is grieving too. A tiny one.[/quote] What do I say about the Friday dinner? DH thinks I should give her another chance but I really don’t want her and DD together anytime soon. [/quote] If she wants into dinner, you have the upper hand. She needs to apologize—first to you, then to your DD—and you need to be satisfied with the apology, or she’s not invited. I don’t hold out a lot of hope here; someone willing to say that to an 11 yo is pretty foul. I personally would not be entertaining dinner.[/quote]
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