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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she still shows disdain for you and acts that way to your children it’s not worth it to continue with the charade. Has she been better to you at all since you’ve grown up? Is she someone you could attempt to have a conversation with about what happened in the past? When I’m in this position and am thinking about low contact with a person the decision is often based on whether I think we can have a reasonable conversation to help get past things. If not, they get jettisoned but I don’t announce it. Go low contact so you can reassess at a later time. [/quote] I’m also someone who needs to understand the whys in a situation. Now is not the appropriate time but have you ever told her you feel like she hated you and asked her what was going on? I’m curious about what dysfunction was going on to create this dynamic. Maybe this could help. [/quote]
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