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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  thanks everyone for giving honest forthright responses.  To answer some questions, No, I am not worried about how people on DCUM judge or anything.  Honestly (HONESTLY) I never ever have given it a thought when I'm not on DCUM.  In my real life, dcum opinions never cross my mind.  My OP was because as I'm reading people saying things like "if you have fat arms, cover them up.  they're gross and I don't like looking at them" or "I think you're trying too hard when you have a fake purse" or comments like that.  It occurred to me that wow, I am probably one of those women the poster is referring to.  So, that's why I asked the question.  And like I said - I really thought no one even notices me or looks twice IRL - they ignore me actually.  So, it never occurred to me that someone who appears to be ignoring me is actually thinking "Ugh, she's trying too hard"

Also, I don't know that I'd say I don't dress to fit my shape.  I've had people (in the office, in the neighborhood) compliment my clothes and say I "put myself together nice"  but I dress within my budget.  It seemed the thread tended to focus on my weight (or being fat) and yes that's part of it, but I was also asking about me getting a cheaper version of what you get.   When I see someone dressed nice with a gorgeous purse or shoes or jewelery, I do admire it and want something that looks similar (but in my price range)  i just can't spend an entire paycheck on a purse.  But if I like the look or style, and then see a knock-off at Marshalls or Ross, I'll get it because I like the way it looks.

Thanks again everyone.  It sounds like for the most part, my thinking is right in that we don't give each other a judgy thought outside of DCUM.

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