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[quote=Anonymous]Why do you need to move to change jobs?

With a lot of neurodivergence and you seeming overwhelmed, is there any way to outsource more to lower stress? I had an organizer come in and help set up simple systems and help organize routines. She comes back a few times a year to tweak. That helped me get past decision paralysis re: changes, seems you may also be prone to that? We did Blue Apron for a while and go back to that during stressful times, as one example.

I'd optimize the status quo, get DH treated for ADHD, get yourself evaluated and treated, my decision paralysis and rumination and anxiety were ADD linked, lower stress all around, regroup and go from there. Right now job hunting is a lot to pile on when you are at a low ebb and your ruminating about your projected interpretation of your DH not "caring" is not helping your mental or physical health either, as a cancer survivor.

Once treated, have DH work with a coach to ramp up his own career and enhance chances of success, that will make things more balanced.

Do you have room for an au pair? Help with the kids and dinner might lower your stress a lot. [/quote]

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