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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think people are being a bit harsh on OP. She waited a full 2 years to introduce the BF - this is a stable relationship and she obviously was trying to protect her kid. Although the playground didn’t work, a casual 1 hour meetup on a child’s familiar turf doesn’t seem THAT crazy of a plan to me.

She does sound a little clueless in envisioning a Hallmark scenario but if her son was really dysregulated then I think she deserves some more thoughtful advice on how to move forward.

I guess the important thing now is how well OP and her BF can “differentiate” from the boy’s behavior. That is - not take it personally and accept it instead of reacting to it emotionally as a personal offense. [/quote]

People are being harsh on OP because it only seems like she cares about what her bf thought and if that improved for others. She did not ask anything about how to make this better for the 7yo or how others with young kids navigated this for their KIDS. That's why the harsh reaction. It's like the bf is a delicate flower either hurt feelings but she couldn't care less about how the 7yo is processing this significant new information.[/quote]

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