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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One thing I haven’t seen in OP’s description of the issue is her concretely asking for help and her DH refusing. OP, have you asked DH to help you figure this out? Have you asked him to step up and earn more? Earlier in our marriage, I was out earning DH x5 in a job I didn’t like and carrying most of the house/kids care burden. I was at a breaking point, and very directly told DH I needed him to make more money so I could move to a lower paying job. He did it. But he watched me struggle and complain for five years and never proactively did anything. I’ve come to realize that he needs a direct request to take action. Maybe your DH is similar.[/quote] Op - yes I have and it is not happening [/quote]
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