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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I pulled strings to get his daughter into school, show up for everything, every airport pickup, errand everything!  for 10 years and I can’t consider an real relationship/marriage. The names I was called for suggesting it. So angry. And hurt.

You are all right. I will just ghost. [/quote]

You said in your original post, “No discovery by spouses”, which would indicate that you’re married.  You should have considered the real relationship/marriage you were already in. Even if that was a typo, you knew he was married. If you expected a real relationship/marriage to be valued, you should never have started the affair. Moreover, you saw that he placed no value on the real relationship/marriage he already had, because he was cheating with you.  If he considered his marriage meaningless, why would you want the same relationship?

You were both selfish and showed that you placed no values on the relationships you had with people who loved and trusted you and whom you had voluntarily committed to. Why would either of you expect the other to treat you better without that commitment?

You seem to have very little regard for the marriage you do have. I suggest you focus on it. Either commit to it and stop having affairs, or put an end to it so you can go find a real relationship/marriage and let your husband do the same. [/quote]

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