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OP, do this only if you want your husband to find out about the affair. What you propose doing could end with your former AP outing you to your husband, if you burn the AP by dumping his gifts and his wife finds out about the affair that way. Do not put it past your ex-AP to deal you the same s**t you dealt him, if you out him to his wife.

And let's face it, aren't you hoping on some level that that's what will happen here? He'll get outed to the DW whose real-world role you wish you could have filled? This is the sort of stuff that has some of us here saying, please get therapy and work out why you hung on for 10 years and feel you were in a relationship that didn't really exist, OP.

Gather the stuff NOW, drive directly to Goodwill or whatever, and dump it there. I'd usually say that if any jewelry is valuable, sell it fast and take the money to spend on yourself, but you sound so wound up that in your case, unless you actually are in need of cash, I say just donate it all, immediately, today. If you trash it, put it in a dumpster far from home. The longer you sit and stew over these possessions the greater the chance you'll do something stupid with them out of vengeance. Don't. [/quote]

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