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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pets. DH had a few rescue cats. Took great care of them. In particular, I remember watching him clean up cat hairballs and scrub the carpet and thought that he would have no problem changing diapers. He was indeed a great father.[/quote]

This can go either way.  I had a boyfriend who adopted a stray cat, adored her, and spoiled her rotten.  He was also vegan.  Stray cats loved him.  He’d stop to pick up worms off the sidewalk and return them to the lawn.  I took these, initially, as signs of compassion.

A few months in the real deal came out—he turned out to be a really angry, spiteful person—the sort of man you find lurking today on incel forums (in fact he turned out to have written articles about such things before those forums existed).  He had a lot of compassion for animals, but not for humans.  He and his cat adored each other, and both were mean to everyone else.

IDK.  The lesson I learned was that a man could check a whole bunch of boxes that suggested he must be a nice person and, still have issues.[/quote]

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