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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]These whine-fests are never ending. Have you never left your children at home for a weekend with your husband in charge? If not, why not? When you arrive home and all the kids are accounted for and no one had to go to the ER, it’s all good. His way might not be YOUR way, but isn’t that okay? To the super planners who posted…You need a “plan” to go out to dinner? What’s the problem with, “Kids, grab your coats, we are going out for dinner tonight.”[/quote]

Yes, you do need a plan to go out to dinner. Where to go, check the dates and hours, make sure you actually want to pay their prices, quick look at the menu to make sure the kids will eat at least something. Possible change of clothes if it's a nicer restaurant or they're especially gross. If they are small, pack an activity so they don't get fussy while waiting. If a baby, check diaper bag and ensure diapers and a spare outfit. Bring baby food, bottle, or breastfeed and/or pump in advance if needed.

I am sorry that you are a person who thinks going out to dinner just magically happens without anyone having to think about it.[/quote]

Oh, and check the schedule, does anyone in the family have a conflict or need time at home to work on something? Is Fun Spontaneous Daddy even aware of when the kids' major projects are due, and their sports and activities schedule?

Oh, it's so easy, grab your coats! With Fun Daddy, you're lucky if he even thinks of that.[/quote]

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