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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"he has been withholding child support (he claims that the state has been holding the support, but I could get the money quicker if he gave one big payment a month and not divide it into 2-3 payments a month)."

What does this mean? [/quote]
It means he’s having the support paid through the state child support office (probably a per paycheck amount). There is always a delay in payment from the withholding date. The ex is probably smart enough to know it’s better for the support to route through the state then paying her directly. [/quote]

He’s not withholding anything.  When you insisted it go through the state, they take the money and it’s out of his control.  My husbands ex did this.  He paid in full, early but she wanted to tell the kids he wasn’t paying so she filed a garnishment.  So, the state started garnishing his paycheck and instead of getting checks before the date, she’d get them weeks later as it hard to be processed.  She’d call screaming demanding the money but it was on her for filing.  We loved the garnishment.  No more dealing with her on it.  He’s much better off with a garnishment as then she cannot lie, like husbands ex did to the court saying she never got the checks and even lied when he provided documentation of the cashed checks with her signature.

Op, you are being nasty to be nasty.  He is paying his child support, he probably cannot afford a bigger place but it doesn’t matter as you’d never let him keep the kids over night and a one bedroom is plenty big for an overnight as kids can have the bedroom and he can sleep in the living room. [/quote]

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