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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Parental neglect as a child that resulted in low self esteem/hate. As a result, unconsciously made very poor relationship choices. Adult trauma when learning my DH had a sex addiction and secret life. He spent $30K on escorts and had 6 girlfriends simultaneously while married to me. He is sober and healthy now, and we’re still married, but I’m a shell of myself. Chronic low self esteem lead to depression. I’ve gained 50 lbs, feel ugly, and have high anxiety over the fear DH will relapse and our family blowing up. [/quote] My advice is to work hard on yourself, for yourself and lose that 50lbs you're carrying and then lose the other 200lbs that is your husband.[/quote]
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