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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Great dates. Regular sex. Life is good. [/quote]

Woman here 45 yo. Dating is fun but I miss regular marital sex. How do you get regular sex if most OLD relationships last 2-4 months, and then you need to look for someone new ? [/quote]

I’m not sure where the 2-4 months figure comes from. After divorce and dating casually, I was in an OLD relationship for 12 months. We saw each other every weekend and occasionally during the week. I’ve been in another OLD relationship for 9 months now. Much better and more regular than during my 15 year marriage.[/quote]

I’m unable to find a long playing arrangement which would be both exclusive and with a person I like to have sex with. I only liked 2 men after 100 dates or so. None of them lasted more than 4 months (they were both high profile high income maybe that’s the reason). People just continue dating and eventually find someone more appealing if it’s FWB.  Of course many more are interested in having sex with me, but I’m not into sex with someone overweight, or not as educated. FWB would need to have a certain intelligence component for me to want him. [/quote]

That’s the problem you’re having- a FWB should be for fun, it shouldn’t really matter about their intelligence or anything else aside from your physical attraction to them.  I had the most fun with guys I would never have actually dated (or brought around any of my friends).  I don’t need intelligence from a FWB.[/quote]

I’m submissive and to have sex with a man he must be superior by intelligence from myself. Otherwise I just won’t do it period. And my experience with less smart men is they fall into me so hard, if I allow sexual stuff that I can’t get rid of them (and I do want to get rid of them fast usually!) [/quote]

Judging by the writing here I’m surprised you’re having difficulty finding a man more intelligent than you.[/quote]

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