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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow! My heart goes out to you OP. I agree with others in that don’t move not one iota. He is making an emotional decision on something that is contractual and in the eyes of the court - emotions won’t be considered. They will look at the terms of the agreement only. [b]For the time being, document and collect every bill you have paid half on and proof of payment towards mortgage.[/b] Next step- shut down communication. [b]Don’t get into why he wants to break up or any of it. Just shut down your emotions.[/b] [b]Feed your children, get on the phone with an attorney, sleep in the bedroom with them and get on a schedule so you can avoid this jackass.[/b] For your own mental sake start looking for an apartment or an Airbnb and just line up a place to land. If I knew you in real life I would open my home. You can’t change the past and no shame in your reason for moving in before a ring or any of that. People do switcharoos all the time. Have a good cry in private spaces and then screw your head on to keep moving. And when/if he comes to his senses - you need to be so far gone from his life that he has to use a shovel to dig you up from his memory. [b]My heart goes out to you! Sending a special prayer for you on this day. [/b][/quote] Done, done and done. He lost me when he announced that the relationship was over and demanded that I move out for no valid reason other than because he said so. That is for sure not the way you treat someone that you [i]supposedly[/i] loved. Thank you for holding me in your prayers. [/quote]
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