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[quote=Anonymous]“prone to angry explosions” — OP, the elephant in the room is your husband’s undiagnosed mental health issues. Without knowing more, it could be anything from OCD/anxiety (no tolerance for ordinary, minor mess and disorder) or narcissistic personality/ borderline (high conflict — texting you angrily over something that would take two seconds to put away). He might be baiting you to respond. If it’s narc/borderline he will forget within 20 min that he has sent the text. You may not realize how much this wears on you. I suggest you keep a diary. And get a therapist. This is not a normal way to live, and sooner or later things may come to a head and you may want a divorce. Within three to five years your child will be a lot more independent and you may even get custody if he doesn’t want to be involved.[/quote]
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