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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, this doesn’t make sense. Why did your doctor test you for low risk strains? My doctor only tests for the high risk strains that cause cancer. I didn’t know doctors even tested for low risk strains. I know the test  exists but it’s not normal to test for low risk hpv in a screening hpv test if the paps are all normal.

And this is why. There’s nothing you can do to treat it, and now you are all stressed.

I think you need to talk to your doctor. You might have your information wrong.

Anyway, it’s fine he wants to talk to his doctor. Personally I think he should still see you while he is contemplating this and figuring it out, but just not have sex with you while he’s figuring it out. He should not just be ignoring you and not seeing you at all and expecting you will go back to him once he’s decided he is willing to risk having sex with you.[/quote]
I have no idea why they tested for a low risk strain either. I asked for the full STI panel and that’s what they did. I was negative for the three cancer causing strains they tested for. They told me I didn’t have to disclose to my partner, that the choice was mine but I felt I should tell him.

Yeah I feel very rejected and bad that he doesn’t want to see me at all right now. He said he needs time to wrap his head around all this and has to get a doctor’s professional opinion. I suspect he thinks after he takes some time and gets clearance from his doctor he will then grace me with his presence and I will want to jump back into his arms…nope. [/quote]

Yeah, I think it’s fine if he doesn’t want to have sex while he is figuring this all out but to just ditch you kinda sucks.

So how long ago did you guys start having sex? Did you use condoms (somehwat but not entirely effective against hpv)? It’s entirely possible he gave it to you! And it’s also possible he’s already caught it from you anyway. His doctor might tell him all this.

Anyway, I think you should find out which strain you test positive for. See fit eh vaccine covers it. That way he or another guy could get vaccinated against it.

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