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Reply to "H claims that I abuse him emotionally, whereas I think it is the other way around"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can’t protect her. He will treat her better if you stay out of it because he will have to and not blame you. People with HFA often blame others to not take accountability themselves. They have rejection sensitivity because of high anxiety. You being part of the equation gives him an excuse to behave badly. When you are out of it, he will have more reason to behave well. If you want what is best for your daughter I think you let them bond in their own way. It won’t be a neurotypical way but it will hopefully be a loving relationship in the way he can achieve that. He probably only wants one weekend day a week or month anyway. Don’t sweat it. [/quote] OP here. PP, thanks much for your very useful viewpoint. [/quote] +2 This PP was very succinct and helpful regarding a sensitive and seemingly common situation. It is nice when DCUM bands together in support, instead of being defensive. [/quote]
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