Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Off-Topic
Reply to "Is it okay to take a break from a friend without telling them? "
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Drawing on this post and your dinner post -- your friend sounds like she has BPD and you sound enmeshed with her. It takes two to tango. You need to figure out why it is so hard for you to set up healthy boundaries that literally every poster on this thread is advising you to do. My guess is one of or both your parents enmeshed with you and you were brought up to take care of someone else's feelings. No one who doesn't have that kind of background would put up with what you are putting up with! So, worry less about your friend, who has zero boundaries and will take, take, take (b/c of a mental health issue -- mots likely BPD) and take a good look at yourself and how much you value you yourself and why are you letting this continue. Therapy.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics