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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP - so you just do everything? How do you deal with the resentment and stay married? He told me the other day he’s so proud that he’s an amazing husband and father and I just stood there stunned that his bar for himself is apparently on the floor. I have contemplated divorce in the past but won’t because of the kids. I have told him multiple times how unfair I find all of this and how lonely and I guess he thinks that’s fine? [/quote]

I'm sorry OP. I don't know what to tell you but this is exactly what led to my divorce. He was constantly not doing even simple small things whereas I was constantly juggling a list of 1000 important things that had to get done and killing myself. On the few occasions he took our child to do something which like you was only because it was convenient or a desirably activity and because I reminded him repeatedly and packed everything and made the appointment and gave him directions he acted like he was father of the year. In all honesty things are much easier now without him because there's no resentment or conflict over his lack of effort, ability or interest in being a parent and DC is old enough to recognize what a failure their father has been.[/quote]

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