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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry Op.

This is so hard and so wrong of behavior.

It’s hard to tell if he’s just low capacity okus lashing out or if he just doesn’t care and won’t put in a base level of effort into household needs or controlling his temper.

First he needs an anti anger med, call it anti anxiety, like lexapro
Next he needs executive functioning coach to get some new systems and habits that allow him to function like an adult, call it “systems coaching.”  This should not be a spouse, bad dynamic, even through you could prob offer tons of tips
Finally, he needs an individual therapist to learn how to control him temper/immature reactions, better communicate verbally and written, and repairs the relationship. This therapist needs to make every third appointment a joint one with both of you. Peal back the onion with some examples good and bad from the week and understand what each of you are working on. Therapy is effort,  it sitting there talking. He needs to do the homework. It will save his marriage.[/quote]

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