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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here,

This is the full message she sent:

"Larla, I got the cash app. Thanks. I just want to say in the future, please don't regard me as your errand boy."

FWIW, I sent the cash app before she even went to the PO. I just wanted it to be done so she wouldn't be waiting around for her reimbursement. Also, no there was no implication that she had to do it. I even said in the message, "if you can't, no worries at all!" and meant it because I have a few local friends I could ask. [/quote]

I see nothing wrong with her text. You asked her to drop everything and do an immediate, time consuming task for you. To be clear, this wasn’t a favor, you paid her for it. You treated her like a paid assistant.

She apparently is a great friend and did it for you. Now she’s letting you know that she didn’t appreciate it and not to do it again.

I think she’s 100% within her right to let you know not to put her out like that again.  You put her in a position where she basically couldn’t say no, so she complied with your request. But that was a big ask. [/quote]

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