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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Completely normal.

He’s in there gaming and beating off. Typical for a 16 yo boy.[/quote]

No, it simply isn't except for oddball kids.

My 16 year old son and his friends all work 20-40 hours per week and hang out together on a regular basis.  No one is holed up in their bedrooms.

Stop trying to normalize this behavior. 
I'm not trying to be a jerk but it simply isn't typical and it isn't healthy.  
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Agreed. I think it’s so bizarre so many parents have convinced themselves this is normal and typical. I know a lot of teenagers and they all hang out with friends in real life. Most multiple times a week. [/quote]

If your teens have a good group of friends and they are getting together in person frequently, consider yourselves lucky. I think that most parents of kids who are spending a lot of time alone at home would love this for their kids, but there’s only so much they can do. I’m not sure any of them are trying to convince themselves that it’s normal and typical across the board, only that it appears normal and typical for the type of kid they have right now. Many of whom who have quite possibly been marginalized by the kids who are getting together all the time, and are trying to figure out how to navigate the social minefield that high school can be. [/quote]

Thank-you! Some of the smugness on here is ridiculous. [/quote]

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