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Reply to "Spouse wants to reconcile but is apparently unable to go no contact"
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[quote=Anonymous]^ I could see that. By the time my husband told me he already had done several months of therapy and had broken it off. So he was already “there”. What was more confusing for him was that since he was clearly over it and processed it and known about it, talked it to death—for me it was shocking, upsetting and new news. I think the fallout was so much bigger and worse than he could have ever imagined. It was very much “if she doesn’t know I’m not hurting her” prior, which obviously was a huge miscalculation. He needed a new therapist and lots of work when the shame and reality hit and everything came to light. In theory, things are much different when it’s revealed which comes as a huge shock to the players in the affair in their secret world of no accountability/we aren’t hurting anyone.0[/quote]
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