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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He sounds pretty bad at parenting. What *is* he bringing to the table?

Swimming is non-negotiable for me. Maybe offer your husband to do all the housework and bedtime on days you do swimming?[/quote]

He also doesn't like housework and I would have to nag the hell out of him to get ANYTHING done. He only cooks eggs one style, and the kids do not like eggs. I am so resentful and tired. [/quote]

So what’s keeping you in this marriage? [/quote]

I wonder that sometimes. Dh makes a lot more money. Who has a single parent swim membership but is married? Me. I'm tired of doing all the activities solo. It's not fair he can sit on his ass while I am out with the kids multiple times a week.

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Take the lot more money and give it to a nanny. Problem solved. Add a 15% constulting fee for yourself if he doesn't want to set up the nanny.

Does you husband want the kids? Does he want a relationship with the kids? Does he want a relationship with you?

If he wants you but not the kids, or not do the work for the kids, let him pay to get away from the kids. It's OK. No need to resent that.
Tell kids dad provide for them, let them fill in the blanks.

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