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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband of 20 years... still gives me a heads up if someone is coming over. Or if he's going out, or when he expects to be home.  Isn't this what normal people do? In what world is it ever okay for your kids to come and go without any communication, and even worse, to bring other people over without any heads up?  That's just rude.

OP if you can't put this minimal level of polite behavior on your kids, you're a jerk.  [/quote]

Thank you!. I'm glad someone here can be honest and objective.

I was rolling my eyes at some of these responses that are clearly people projecting their issues with their stepmom new wife on the situation.

I was expecting to read that the girlfriend was saying he shouldn't have visitation with his kids or that he should only see them once a month or something else ridiculous.
But her view is more than reasonable.

Exactly. They are thinking of moving in together and he just expects her to put up with whatever he throws her way. He has no consideration that it will be her home too and she might need some peace and quiet occasionally from all of the extra adults in the house.

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