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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]thanks for all the great opinions. [b]I thought i would just invite her to look at my page (which is under a pseudonym so not easily found) so she can see photos[/b]. It's "public" so she does not have to "friend" me to see it - right?

It was an "open" adoption and I happen to know she went to a very well-off family and had a privileged upbringing, had a brother, went to a gorgeous university, etc. Her parents were very loving and grateful and i can't imagine she really felt THAT rejected.

I was a poor, messed up teenager. Do adopted children understand this about their birthmothers? I was not drug addicted, I just could not offer her what a child deserves, and knew there were hundreds of families out there that could.

Also, in my personal adoption file, [b]I put "please don't contact"[/b] (it's a choice birthmothers have in open adoptions) [b]and she did anyway so I don't feel that bad about that[/b], either.

And thanks for the "wait til the weekend" advice- i'll do that.[/quote]

It sounds like you want her to learn about you (Share photos? Like with your other children?) but you don't really care about her at all. [b]It's you you you, all over again.[/b]

I also don't like how you are all self-righteous that you put "do not contact" and yet she dared contact you. [b]I hope you reach out to her and get your ass kicked!![/b][/quote]

Your first comment shows that the depth of your thinking is about as deep as an episode of "Ice Loves Coco"

Your second comment is just immature. How old are you? 14?[/quote]

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