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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anybody else have a husband who reacts very aggressively if you “contradict” him in public? Mine is throwing in my face two instances where I spoke while he was interacting with a service person. 1) barmaid was bringing him a drink; I mentioned she seemed to be in the middle of pulling drinks for others at that moment and she said nope she was okay getting his; this was “humiliating.” 2) leaving a performance he mentioned to the bartender he had to pay a bill from something he ordered at intermission. I was confused bc I hadn’t known he ordered anything so I asked what was going on & why he was stopping. This too was a “humiliation.” I was yelled at for it last night and now it’s the first thing he wanted to talk about this morning.[/quote]

There appears to be possible contempt on both sides here.  Marriage counselors typically say that -contempt- means a marriage is unfixable.[/quote]

[b]Everyone has contempt with their partner on something.[/b] You have to be able to overlook and focus on something else about them instead.[/quote]

This is … untrue. Have you convinced yourself that it is?

Contempt in a relationship is not normal.  Or sustainable. At all. [/quote]

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