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[quote=Anonymous]You need to be 1) honest with yourself about if you want more kids or not and then 2) expressly honest with her about it. It sounds like you haven’t done either. Similar situation here (I’m the wife) - 15 years later. We have one elementary school aged kid, and we’re all (me, husband, now-adult stepkid) are all happy with the way it worked out, but both my H and I were on the fence about having a kid together for a while. Finally at one point I told him he needed to just be clear about what he wanted. Frankly, being a stepmom to school-aged kids w/o kids of your own can be raw deal. You have the constraints of kids (money, vacation time, schedules, messes), without the joy. But, if she prefers a more independent life, she might be perfectly happy seeing you a few days a week, and having a lot of time to herself. [/quote]
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