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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to tell her you don't want kids, and back it up by getting snipped. She can take it or leave it.

I've seen this happen to way too many guys-- they don't actually want more kids, but they want the new relationship to work so eventually they drift into marriage and kids. But then they don't actually have the time, money, or energy to be the father of four kids across two moms, so there's a lot of stress and everyone ends up disappointed. The older set of kids resents this and drifts away, the dad blames their mom but it's really his fault for shortchanging them on quality time. The new wife resents that they aren't really new parents together, and resents having to deal with and plan around and pay for the step-kids. The dad can't quite grasp that his poor judgment teed up this entire situation and feels so put-upon and exhausted. It's a bad scene all around. Don't do this to yourself and your kids, OP![/quote]

Haha. Spot on.  So predictable. [/quote]

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