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[quote=Anonymous]OP, some of these posts sound pretty insensitive and harsh. I am sure your DD would love some answers which is why she reached out to you before. I agree that finding out more definitive information and contacting her via a third party will offer you more closure should she choose not to reply (you will never know if you do it via Facebook). I was adopted by my stepdad when I was 9. I didn't meet my biological father until I was 19. I know it's not the same entirely as I lived with my birth mother....however my life made a lot more sense after I met him. I was raised in a wealthy community, given every material blessing imaginable- but I never felt as if I quite fit in. Even if you get rejected, it's worth it for the potential of connecting, however briefly, and getting and giving some answers. I now have a friendship with my birth father and my half sister. Its really tentative, but I am happy to have this. It's not been easy, but worth the effort. Good luck, I imagine you have suffered a long time. I hope this gives you both a measure of peace.[/quote]
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