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Reply to "Telling an older child about conception using donor egg"
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[quote=Anonymous]It is disappointing to see those who are not telling their children. Be honest: is that in your child's best interest? Or are you not telling them because it's easier on YOU? When they give their family medical histories at doctor's appointments, are you okay with them giving misinformation? This will take on increasing importance as they age. Chances are they will eventually find out the truth. All it takes is a test on Ancestry, whether they do it or eventually have a child who does so. Or maybe they'll find out during a medical crisis. Then they will realize that you've mislead them their whole lives. It will upend them and cause trust issues. I know someone who had this experience. They've since connected with others who've had similar experiences. People are entitled to know the truth about themselves. Ideally a child should grow up with this knowledge, shared in age appropriate ways. It should not be treated as a shameful secret. [/quote]
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