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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You seem really judgmental instead of empathetic towards your mother.[/quote] If you’ve been on the receiving end of abusive treatment you don’t really owe that person gobs of empathy[/quote] This doesn't sound abusive -- I grew up in a stable, UMC, 2 parent family with no major dramas OP needs to go to therapy to work on her ish. Time to stop blaming mama[/quote] I just reread OP‘s original post, and I don’t see her “blaming mama“ anywhere, in fact, it sounds like she’s made quite a nice life for herself and it’s just thinking about how to not repeat patterns. But it’s normal and healthy when you’ve gotten some distance from an emotionally abusive family dynamic to look at it and say, huh, I’d really like my family to look a little bit different. You don’t have to come from, crazy reportable physical abuse to have that experience. Probably OPs scenario is not so unusual.[/quote]
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