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[quote=Anonymous]mean school girls/boys is one thing. resentful targets who wish them ill many years later seems a much bigger issue. P, I'm so sorry for your pain as a child. Your reaction all these years later seems pathological. I can understand remembering old hurts and feeling bad about them. But what you're doing with these memories is hurting you. Is this your revenge on your former bullies - to become a psychologically stunted adult? Some revenge. I'm lucky in that I wasn't bullied by classmates, but my family's bullying has been horrendous. I feel sad about it sometimes, it's painful, but wish them ill? No. Just no. Their bad behavior is their problem. When you wish people ill, that's when you make it your big, character-disorder-ish, happiness-obliterating problem. The obliteration of your happiness, not theirs.[/quote]
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