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Reply to "Feminism is a scam- I want to be a trophy wife!"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A working woman almost always works harder than a working man if they have kids. [b]He is never making the beds or cooking and doing dishes and buying groceries.[/b] If they outsource all tasks, the woman still has what I call the "executive stress" of hiring and managing staff. She also usually runs all hobbies and family socializing. In the rare cases in which the man does more, he does not plan to do so for decades, and is usually just biding his time until he can divorce her. A WAM (Wife and Mother" is defined as a SOF (Servant of the Family) in the eyes of most men and other women unless she was born extremely wealthy. Whatever paid labor a WAM does outside the home is on top of her fixed family labor. The European scientist who was pivotal in creating the COVID vaccine...literally saving the world...still did the lion's share of the home management and child-related admin.[/quote] Maybe not YOUR pathetic excuse for a husband, but mine does all of this and more. And we both work full-time. [/quote] My DH does do stuff around the house BUT I still work harder than he does around the house, and I do WAY more of the childcare than he does, plus all the sort of high level planning/organizing. I think you can and should expect your spouse to be a full participant in the home and with kids, but I also think women get held responsible for a lot more and carry a heavier burden than men do at home and with kids, about 90% of the time. There are outliers, but the average man is not doing as much around the house or with kids as the average woman.[/quote]
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