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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I know I couldn't get over those things that he said to the OW if my spouse had done the same, so no shame in your game if you can't move past it. Those intrusive thoughts are real and will be pervasive for a long time. You don't deserve to live that everyday, wondering if it will get better. [/quote] I understand. It’s the hardest part for sure. If I put it into the bucket of all the lies during this time period it’s a bit easier to handle, but yes, I’ll never really know - was there a kernel of truth or full truth to all that was said? I will say he is critical of me and the kids and that has been an ongoing hurtful aspect of our relationship. Of course I’m enjoying, if honest, all the notes and words now about the things he loves and appreciates in me. Logically, I know those are just words and his actions need to back it all up and that that will take time to know. [/quote]
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