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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I west to college in the 1990 with a guy whose mom was 50 when she had him back in the early 1970s.  (No IVF). [/quote]

She did not have him at age 50. Don’t be so naive. [/quote]

Haha Yes, my friend James in the 70s was born when his mom was in her 50s. It was really his older sister's baby.  :D  :D  :D [/quote]

You call your friend James an “it?”

Explains the multiple laughing emojis as you laugh about your it friend’s family issues. You don’t sound like a very nice friend or human being.

You phrased your comment oddly, as well.  Besides calling your friend “it,”you say “it” (he) was his older sister’s baby.

People are not called it. James is James, or he, or him, or my friend. James is not it.

James had an older sister, and she became pregnant and gave birth to him. His grandmother raised him (not it, James is not an it) as her son. His bio mother was rebranded as his sister. (Of course she would be much older than James, as she gave birth to him.)

I find it very sad that you laugh so heartily at the life of James. Why do you think his life was a very funny joke? If his real mother/sister gave James to her mother/his grandmother to raise, how did James and how did you find out that his sister was actually his mother, and his mother was actually his grandmother? Was it a comical situation? James wasn’t at all surprised or concerned or confused about his life? You typed hahaha and added 3 laughing emojis, so James must have been laughing a lot about his situation!

My aunt gave up her only child by choice, she said had no desire to be a mom. My grandfather’s youngest sister adopted her baby. (She was the youngest of her siblings and never married or had bio kids.) My aunt was adamant that she never be identified as bio mom. She was very sure of her decision.

Baby born happy and healthy, goes home with adoptive mom/great aunt and real mom/aunt goes back to her pre-pregnancy life no issues. Baby and adoptive mom are great. Years pass. Baby grows up happily and (secret adoptive) mom is truly enamored of their family life and chance to be a mom. It actually worked out great!

Except when my aunt changed her mind. The child was 13 years old and real mom/my aunt decided she had made a terrible mistake and wanted to be mom to “her baby.” I am not going into detail but I believe my aunt to be one of the most selfish and bitter women on earth after the pure destruction she caused in the life of her bio-child. She didn’t even give the adoptive mom a chance to work with her for the best interests and mental health of the child.

So yeah, people sometimes have babies and the situation is not normal and families sometimes allow kids to be raised by family.

I just think your comment is insensitive and icky, and it struck a nerve with me because of the situation I witnessed within my own family.

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