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[quote=Anonymous]Worst way to make a decision about dating/marrying someone is “it’s the best I’ll ever get, so yeah I’ll stick around”. Imagine how he would feel if you told him this. Imagine someone saying that to you! Horrible feeling like you are a consolation prize; better than nothing but not the grand prize. Since you probably don’t want to have kids, you have time to 1) work on you and respecting your worth and 2) dating until you find the person who is exactly right for you. Because the worst thing isn’t not getting married. The worst thing is staying with him, twisting yourself to fit into his life, get married, bond with his kid, have a child that you are ambivalent about for him, then 10 years later you get divorced. Now you have a kid (that you love, but didn’t want) and divorced at 42 when it’s even harder to date. Get your own house in order before you invite someone in. [/quote]
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