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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When dating I constantly run across men who cannot be self reflective. If there’s a problem
It’s always 100% the other persons fault. It’s so frustrating? Do they think they are perfect? Just have no interest in growing and becoming a better person?[/quote]

Who is responsible for your failed relationships? Was it the man every time?[/quote]

OP here. I am saying that the men I run across in dating almost always believe relationship failure is 100% their exes fault. Very rarely I come across one who can identify something he did wrong, and once I get to know him better I discover he still engages in that same behavior, yet feels entitled to a good relationship.[/quote]

How many women have you dated?

How many anyones would go on a date and say "BTW I'm the reason my relationships fail. Let's try one!"

This is selection bias. [/quote]

Nice try at gaslighting OP. She’s not saying she is never at fault (at least so far), she merely wants to find a man like her. 
It’s possible we need to think of how to filter out people like this quicker bec I too want to meet someone willing to try to understand the other person as well as themselves.

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