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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, since you said you live a plane ride away from everyone in your hometown , I’m assuming your sister was more involved in elder care?  Sometimes that can do it.  [/quote]

Plus OP admitted she didn’t help at all with dealing with her parents’ possessions. [/quote]

If the sister was the executor, the probate lawyer might have told her that she was the one responsible for taking care of all the personal and real property. It might have been easier for her to be responsible for all the items without another person in the house. If something goes wrong or things go missing when you’re the executor, you’re liable, so she may have been advised to take care of everything without the distraction of others having access to the house.

My cousin who was executor for her mom’s estate changed all the locks and didn’t let any of her siblings in the house until everything had been inventoried. Then she gave her siblings the list and let them all note what they wanted and worked with them to make a fair distribution of their mom's belongings. 
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