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[quote=Anonymous]I do watch Succession and there are some things that I see in her with Shiv. She isn’t entitled like Shiv, just very angry and I would say emotionally manipulative (like Shiv).

What led to the yelling was we were talking about a HS friend, Larla, and DD mentioned she now has a serious BF. I know Larla bc the kids grew up together and her parents still live down the street. I said, “oh, right, I saw Larla’s mom the other day, and she mentioned Larla has a BF and they are coming to stay for a week.” DD started saying why was I up in everyone’s business. I explained we literally ran into each other walking the dogs, which happens on occasion, and we usually stop and chat for a few min., and she happened to mention Larla’s BF and their visit. I didn’t ask for info, the mom volunteered it. She then backtracked to a time when a kid had party at her house when the kids were 14 or 15. I heard the parents were away. I said DD couldn’t go unless there was an adult there. Some kid got really drunk and the kids ended up terrified and called an ambulance, and no there were no adults. I didn’t rub it in her face, I didn’t even say anything about it to her about it. Then it pingponged to other things, like the time she was a boyfriend at 16 and I said bedroom and family room doors have to remain open when he visits. Basically I think she has a problem with any boundaries we set, and is under the impression good parents set none because good parents let their kids do whatever they want.

I don’t get it. The other kids might grumble about boundaries we set, but they never flipped out or held grudges. [/quote]

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