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Reply to "Women: Cohabitation with your boyfriend is stupid"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm on the side of PPs who think it's a bad idea, for several reasons. First, I think living together is the worst of both worlds - you lose the benefits of singledom and take on the burdens of marriage without the rewards of either. When you live with someone, you are effectively shut out of other options. It's hard to date others and no quality man will date you if you already live with someone, and in my opinion, that sort of commitment should be reserved for the husband, not a live-in boyfriend. In my country, there's a going joke that when you ask a live-in girlfriend who she lives with, she'll say, "with my almost husband". And the man will say "with this one chick." I personally wanted to date many men, spend all day in my pajamas if I wanted to, have sole custody over remote control and eat ice cream for breakfast if I wanted to. No way I would give that all up for someone less than marriage. Then again I know many women who have lived with their boyfriends for 10+ years, and if neither party pines for marriage or is open to alternatives, then whatever make them happy.[/quote]
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