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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]#1 question is — what is your BMI?  If > 25.1, then work to lower it.  Really.

#2 question is — all of the following — Do you have a cat - or more than one cat?  Do you have a condo?  Do you have significant student debt?  Do you have an STI?  Do you think of yourself as type A?  [b]Do you have an inflexible list of income or politica[/b]l or age or height or other requirements for your potential partner? [/quote]

This. Be informed and care. But zealotry…[/quote]

Not these days unfortunately. [b]You don’t want to have children— and OP clearly wants children— with someone who thinks it’s cool for you to be denied medical care if you miscarry or similar. This stuff is very real right now.[/b][/quote]

PP is right. This is not some abstract thing to put off thinking about. My relative is starting to use dating apps (after being widowed several years ago) and is finding that many of the men there who are indicating they are interested in a serious relationship (in other words, leading possibly to kids eventually) also hold some very right-leaning beliefs about women's autonomy. You have to exercise a lot of caution, OP. My relative even has things on her profile clearly indicating her politics and positions and still gets a LOT of interest from men she's pretty sure would oppose everything she thinks. Men just spew out interest on apps, trying to land women to date them and really to get into bed with them, period. Be careful. [/quote]

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