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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ll answer this as a mom of a [b]24 y.o. man who is moving in with his girlfriend next month and basically views it as a trial run for marriage[/b]- you find a guy who is not afraid of commitment, who values marriage and who values you.  You don’t get yourself into “situationships”, you let them know early on that you are dating to marry, and if you scare some off - excellent, these are the men you are trying to avoid anyway.   [/quote]

This is the opposite of commitment.[/quote]

Yup. This is a FWB situation. [/quote]

What??? No way. Moving in with your partner is not what friends with benefits do. FWB means you don’t identify as boyfriend/girlfriend and are free to date other people. [/quote]
24 y/o men don’t do trial runs for marriage. They found a girl to sleep and hangout with, agree to move in together, and then at some point a few years later she finally drags him over the finish line.[/quote]

Yes, this is the opposite thing I wanted. I know some men just married however was around at the time they felt like they were ready to get married, and felt like they owed it to the woman who had been with them for many years. Sometimes it worked out but often they just didn't seem to like their wives that much. I never wanted to wonder if my husband really loved me deeply or if I just wore him down. [/quote]

Don’t delude yourself. Either way it’s because you were in the right place at the right time.

You know what they say. Women want to get married when they meet the right guy. Men want to get married when it’s the right time. [/quote]

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