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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People in these threads are always so weird about women wanting to get back with an ex, like no couple has ever broken up before and gotten back together.[/quote]

This man is barely an ex. He dumped her last night and she's begging him to stay big difference for a couple that splits up and gets back together months, years down the road.

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DP but what’s the difference? Oh it’s so much better to wait a few months instead of a few hours? It’s the same thing. I feel like people are just being nasty to this op for the sake of being nasty like “oh no one gets back with an ex, not successfully, you’re so stupid OP.” Then someone says “my bf and I broke up and got married” and you guys are like well of course YOU did because you handled the situation so much better than OP. Bizarre. It’s the same effing thing to get back together a year later and a day later.[/quote]

No it's different because generally after an actual break up  both parties have had a real chance to reflect on what split them up and grow and decide if getting together again is right.
That's not happening here.
And no one is being mean to op. They are being honest with her, her behavior is not healthy. Their actions are not how emotionally healthy people in healthy relationships behave 
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