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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had a good relationship with my spouse and still cheated, PP.  It’s just sex and doesn’t mean anything.  What matters is who you come home to.  People make such a big deal out of it for no reason.  [/quote]
you are a sociopath.  Your poor spouse. Does your spouse think it's nbd?[/quote]

I’m a spouse and I haven’t cheated, and don’t intend to, but I don’t think it would be a dealbreaker for me if he did. I think I’d rather talk about it before hand but maybe I’d prefer to just never know. [b]It’s not that important to me, tbh.[/b] [/quote]

Easy to be so breezy about your spouse cheating when it hasn't actually happened to you.

Wait until you're cheated on and then come back and tell us how you feel about that.

Especially if the cheating is not a one night stand, but an ongoing, sustained affair over time, while you're carrying on thinking your spouse is a full and engaged participant in your life as a couple and/or family. No one who's in an affair is fully present in his or her marriage or committed relationship. If you're fine looking back over many months or even years of your own life and realizing you weren't in the relationship you thought you were in -- well, great for you for being able to slough it off without emotion, I guess. But again: You're talking only hypothetically. As far as you know. [/quote]

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