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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because when kids have kids they burden the family. I’ve raised my kids and I be dammed if I raise anymore.[/quote] They burden the aunts & uncles? [/quote] Depends on the family. From what I’ve seen, people step up to the plate. The parents, the family. The extended family. Two of my brothers had kids at about the age of OP’s niece. Lots of us stepped in to help, including me. My nieces and nephew are now grown and are wonderful people with kids of their own. I’m very close with them which is no surprise since I was majorly involved in their lives all growing up. And it wasn’t a burden because we all love my brothers and we all love the kids. As for my brothers, I think they became who they would have, kids or not. [/quote] Now you sound like normal people who actually care about family. [/quote]
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